Look before you leap.
I met someone today who said she had just come out of a 2 month ABUSIVE D/s relationship.
Her Master dumped her like a hot potato when she addressed her needs/views.
Anyway why am I posting this you may ask?
Well This woman proclaims to have had Stockholm syndrome and wanted to be his friend, yadda yadda..
" Eh? Still be his friend when he abused you?"
I never asked as I don't know her or what goes on in her head but it got me thinking..
I see so many people come into SL and jump right into the BDSM scene with NO CLUE as to what they are getting into.
I mean these people don't even know how to do the SL basics and I see them in shackles begging to be owned.
Please people Get informed.. Listen learn read about it and for God's sake KNOW your prospective Dominant.
Learn how to play SAFE and to COMMUNICATE!
Use the brain you were born with.
Please if nothing more make this your mantra!!
Okay Rant done, Ember out.