Look before you leap.

I met someone today who said she had just come out of a 2 month ABUSIVE  D/s relationship. 
Her Master dumped her like a hot potato when she addressed her needs/views.

Anyway why am I posting this you may ask?
Well This woman proclaims to have had Stockholm syndrome and wanted to be his friend, yadda yadda..
" Eh? Still be his friend when he abused you?"
I never asked as I don't know her or what goes on in her head  but it got me thinking..

I see so many people come into SL and jump right into the BDSM scene with NO CLUE as to what they are getting into.
I mean these people don't even know how to do the SL basics and I see them in shackles  begging to be owned.

Please people Get informed.. Listen learn read about it and for God's sake  KNOW your prospective Dominant.
Learn how to play SAFE and to COMMUNICATE!
Use the brain you were born with.


Please if nothing more make this your mantra!!

Okay Rant done, Ember out.

When Pigs hunt

 Good morning Bishes A few things today.

I finished not one . Not two, but THREE.  Yes THREE grid wide hunts over the weekend..
Now to sort..Le sigh..

Anyhoo Here is one that takes top prize in my book from the BDSM hunt.

A Pig Stye!! This gem is from Moon Song and wow just wow.
A wicked menu complete with snout blindfold & butt plug tail.
A great way to humiliate your submissive!!! Thank you Moon Song  I am sure I will get plenty of use from this gift!!
I also did the Pro posers Hunt I love this one as I am a total pose/animation whore I had gotten through most of the hunt when I came to # 29 expressions poses. This is what greeted me  as I rezzed..

Oh really.. Nice to meet you too Shop owner..My hackles go up , I shrug then continue to poke about when I notice the sign is clickable.. I get this note card. Titled  
Humm, OK. I read on ..

Alright, first reaction to the glaring sign was insult and anger.. Now I am just plain pissed. 
Let me fill you in on a little info dear shop owners..

First of all People will cheat yes.. Have I done so in the past 
But.. I do a lot of these hunts looking for items and new shops to blog about so sure I use my search.
When I have finished and looked through the Items If I find a nice quality gift. 
Or even have a pleasant experience with a shop /owner ( Thank you riri bazar from*eat me and heat me* poses) I will return or Send people to said shop..

So Thank you Cranky shop owner for totally turning me off of you and your shop* Smiles sweetly as she tosses the unopened gift in the trash*
  Hair worn is by Creatives  A 60l special for January!!
Go there buy hair, be cool like me :P

All tied up in my hunting

Here's more stuff from The BDSM Hunt

 Picture #1
Corset from shop #18 *Kas*
Bamboo bondage from #8 Genira
Hair from Creatives (Schizo) This colour is 60L for January
Picture #2
Outfit from store #28 Red Devil
Chained alter from #9 Erotic Torment
Hair(hotness)And makeup From Creatives

Catch ya on the flip side
 Ember out.


 And others just plain suck!
.. Please read on.

First of all I would like to mention this wicked awesome hunt I am doing.
So many stores I didn't know about and the prizes.. Oh wow!!

That being said I would like to introduce you all to a shop called HybridZ
Holy crow what a shop. They have something for almost every fetish.

The main floor being almost entirely devoted to latex rubber dolls , maggots, puppies .. Well you get the idea.
Now the original gift that was placed out for the hunt happened to be a shop freebie. 
Okay for some this can be a disappointment. 
But hey Perhaps the owner is new to hunting or did not  understand .

Here is a photo of the first prize..Fetish doll.. It's shiny.. its got locking gags.. It is great!! 
I personally wold have had no clue that this was a shop freebie as well until I got a group notice about How upset the shop owner was that people were mad about it.
So Most owners would just pull out of the hunt, save hassle But not this one..
She put out this for us for free..

Taille doll.. This suit normally sells for 700L

I would like to personally thank the owner of  HybridZ for rising above the drama.
I will defiantly be back and be sending people I meet in the Playground.

And to all those of you who complained..
This is a hunt for free items. you will find some really great things and if one is not to your liking ..
STFU and suck it up sunshine this was free. 

For not teaching you basic decency or common courtesy.
Please people think before you speak.
We are all human and words can cut like Knives.

That's all I have to say for today.
 Thank you Fyre for all your lovely gifts.
Keep on keepin on.

And until next time.. Peace out